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 From a parent’s perspective, arranging the sessions and bringing my teenage son along, he has been professional, flexible and clearly understands the issues my son has been dealing with. He has maintained clear and respectful boundaries while building a good rapport and meeting my son at the right level. My son has been given useful tools and has grown in confidence to move forward. His support has been very helpful in addressing the issues we originally sought help for. I would highly recommend Tim. 

Ann - March 2026

 I have tried counselling on multiple occasion and have never really got on with it. I have always struggled to open up and in the past have always quit counselling after a few sessions. However, Tim was able to make me feel really comfortable, relaxed and able to open up. I felt I was able to be honest about things I've been too embarrassed to talk about in the past and Tim always responded non-judgmentally, with warmth, compassion and a good sense of humour. I am really grateful for the sessions I had with Tim and found them extremely beneficial after a particularly tough time in my life. Thanks so much Tim! :) 

Jess - November 2025

 I was going through a hard time in life and decided I could use the guidance of counselling. When I found Tim, I instantly felt that I wasn't alone. I discovered there was a way to grasp my problems and look at them analytically. While I knew it wasn't going to be easy, for the first time there was a path to tackle them. Tim would research ahead of our sessions to give me the best guidance, providing activities to understand my emotions and techniques to help me manage them. He was knowledgeable, pulling from many disciplines of psychology to offer multiple perspectives that helped me understand my situation. In his sessions, I was always comfortable and found myself being more open than I ever thought I would be. I am so grateful for how Tim has helped me and am happy with the way my life is going now. Thanks, Tim! 

Ben - October 2025

 Tim has a way in counselling of really getting to the root of the problem, even when you don't realise that the problem is something different to what you thought. He does it all with kindness, a good sense of humour and respect. I leave each session feeling just slightly more and more unburdened and lighter. Really grateful for him for our time in therapy, he makes it feel like I just log on and have a chat, rather than feeling like I'm being 'counselled' or 'therapised'. He's knowledgeable, clearly well read and I enjoy the fact that I leave each session feeling calm and usually smiling, even if it was a heavy or upsetting conversation. 

Naomi - October 2025

 Last year I decided to return to counselling to work on my mental health, after some research I found Tim in the local area. I really appreciated Tim’s empathetic approach, giving me space to explore many aspects of my life that I hadn’t previously discussed. It’s a little shy of a year later and I have managed to greatly improve my outlook on life and my mental health has improved. It took a while but Tim really gave me the tools and space to be able to continue to support myself into the future. Thank you! 

Ben - September 2025

 I just want to say a huge thank you for an amazing six weeks of counselling. These sessions have truly helped me with my mental health. I feel so much better, lighter, happier and in such a good place right now. Honestly, at the start of these six weeks I had no idea I would end up feeling this happy, confident, and ready for the next chapter of my life. Thank you for being such an amazing counsellor. Some of your advice will stay with me forever. I'm grateful for the support and guidance you've given me. 

Joy - September 2025

 Counselling with Tim supported me through a tough time at work and university with lots of transition and uncertainty. Having a regular space to check in and work through concerns and worries was hugely helpful, and the flexibility alongside this meant I could ensure the things important to me were discussed. Some therapy settings can feel uncomfortably formal, but the space Tim provided was comfortable and supportive which I'm really grateful for. 

Leah - July 2025

 If you are nervous about choosing the right therapist, do yourself a favour and have a chat with Tim at Tandem. I found him to be adaptable and professional, with a warm and empathetic tone that made it very easy to ease myself into counselling sessions quickly. I now have a large toolbox of stategies I can utilise if I am struggling, and putting these into practice has been a hugely beneficial and rewarding process. Thank you Tim for helping me untangle the messy wires in my brain and recognise actions I can take to become the best version of myself. 

Thomas - March 2025

 I started my counselling journey back in August and Tim has been an incredible source of support and guidance, especially during one of the most difficult times in my life. After losing my mum six years ago, I struggled with grief, guilt and didn’t know how to move forward. Tim’s compassion, patience, and expertise helped me process my emotions in a healthy way and find a sense of peace. He created a safe, non-judgmental space where I always feel heard and understood. Tim's insights have truly changed my perspective, and I am so grateful for his help. I highly recommend Tim to anyone in need of support. 

Jeevan - January 2025

 Tim helped me get back into dating in a healthy way, by overcoming the negative effects of past relationships on my confidence and by accepting my sexuality, through a non-judgmental approach to my past and my kinks. I felt safe and listened-to with Tim. Our sessions were frank and free-flowing, so I could talk naturally about what was really bothering me week-to-week, and Tim's insights and practical guidance helped me navigate the ups and downs of finally putting myself back out there. At last, I feel like I have put the past in its place, accepted myself fully, and have come to trust myself to be emotionally vulnerable again. I can see a happy relationship in my future, where I couldn't before, and so I highly recommend Tim! 

Ryan - November 2024

 Tim is a lovely person to chat to, I immediately felt like I could open up and express myself in a safe place where there is no judgement and where I can be completely honest. I never felt any embarrassment or humiliation when asking for help and Tim's approach is very gentle and makes you feel comfortable. Tim is very chatty, friendly and open, we have shared our life experiences and been able to relate to each other. He is very good at helping you to manage stress and helps you to feel like you are in control of everything. I have made positive life changes following counselling and felt like I am in charge of my own problems, he has really instilled a sense of optimism in me again. I am very grateful and thankful for Tim's help and would recommend his services. 

Bhagya - August 2024

 When I first reached out to Tim last summer I felt that I was in a very vulnerable position and at a point of emotional crisis. I felt very desperate and struggled to see how I would work my way through some of my issues/struggles. However, Tim provided a comfortable, supportive and well structured environment for me to open up in. My experience with Tim has been exceptionally positive, he is clearly well versed in his profession, with the ability to ask challenging yet necessary questions that helped me to navigate and explore my emotions, thoughts and feelings regarding each issue/situation. I was initially drawn to Tim's services due to my interest in the idea of 'pluralistic' counselling. Opening up and exploring difficult topics can be challenging and it is often a 'no one size fits all' situation, so to have somebody with a plethora of skills/knowledge in this role is definitely a bonus. If you are looking for a diplomatic, empathetic and sensitive counsellor with the ability to challenge and change your emotions/behaviour/thinking, definitely give Tandem a go. 

Natasha - July 2024

 Counselling with Timothy was like talking with an old friend most of the time. I admit I was not certain anything would change about my circumstances during our first session. However, the change that did happen was almost effortless. Our sessions had a significant effect on how I process my emotions and the way I view and treat myself. He helped me make connections about certain things I experienced and encouraged me to trust myself and rely on others. I have forged new pathways and friendships as a result and could not be more grateful. The effect on my wellbeing has been truly amazing. 

Victoria - May 2024

 Tim has been extremely helpful to myself. When I started counselling sessions with him, my anxiety was at an all time high, which resulted in panic attacks and eating problems. I have been able to go from having panic attacks almost everyday to now not having one in around 14 weeks, my social anxiety is more manageable and my eating is drastically better. Tim helped me understand my anxiety, and why I was having particular thoughts, and as a result helped me rationalise them to help take the power away from them. If you are struggling with your mental health, I can honestly say that Tim has been the best professional I have spoke to. Thanks again Tim. 

Kieran - April 2024

 I initially doubted getting any help with my issues, thinking that I can deal with them on my own. However, after going to Tim for help my mind was changed. I had issues regarding discovering and discussing my emotions, as well as regarding a recent breakup. Tim aided me in fixing these issues by exploring my past relationship as a whole and helping me identify what areas could have affected me, teaching me about attachment styles and that not everything that occurred was my fault, helping me look at life as a whole in a different light. My emotions were also tackled, allowing me to be more open with how I feel and discovering that there are more than the basic emotions, allowing me to discover more about myself and have a clearer picture about how i feel. I cannot recommend Tim enough for anyone who believes they need extra assistance in life. 

Tom - March 2024

 I had a positive experience with Tim, appreciating his professional yet inviting approach. His counselling style fostered a comfortable environment, making it easy for me to open up. The sessions proved highly effective, offering valuable insights into my thoughts and emotions. Tim's empathetic guidance was a perfect balance between support and constructive input. I am genuinely grateful for the positive impact he had on my well-being. I definitely recommend Tim to anyone seeking a counsellor who combines expertise with a compassionate approach, creating a safe space for self-reflection and personal growth on their journey to healing and self-discovery. 

Imade - November 2023

 I started my sessions during a very difficult time in my life where I felt like everything in my life was going wrong. Initially I was unsure starting the sessions as I had previously had talking therapy which I did not find as useful, however the initiation process was reassuring and encouraging. I had 12 sessions with Tim and he helped me through each session in a sympathetic and professional manner. Tim was very easy to talk to and gave me space to do sessions in the way that worked best for me and I came out of each session feeling; heard, refreshed and motivated. Tim helped me to understand my traumas and work through each one in order to understand my feelings and thoughts. Tim supported me to recognise and learn healthier ways to manage and express my feelings which have helped me moving forward. 

Shakeebah - September 2023

 I came to counselling to understand my emotions and feelings from my past trauma and experiences. I wasn’t confident about counselling at first however my initial judgement was changed from the first session. Tim allowed me to open closed doors and improve my confidence. I felt trapped but now I am free. Thank you. 

Oskar - June 2023

 Tim was amazing! He thoroughly explained the process and in the first session had me create goals I wanted to work towards. I had one specific main goal I was adamant I would fulfil, and having Tim nudge me and help circumvent issues as they cropped up is genuinely one of the main reasons my goal was reached. He was always patient, he would allow time and space for me to vent frustrations and then he would give me validation for feelings when I myself didn’t have the confidence to do so. I had always known counselling to be an awkward, clinical situation. Tim allowed it to be less imposing, a lot more relaxed. I feel like that atmosphere allowed me to ‘let loose’ a lot more. I don’t think I would be as far into my amputee/prosthetics journey without the assistance of my counsellor. I cannot thank him enough for all the support he has given me. 

Jade - June 2023

 When I met Tim, I was feeling desperate. I’d been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder after losing our son to cancer. I was in a bad way – legs shaking all the time, feeling nauseous with high anxiety and depression. I thought I was going to be like this for the rest of my life. Tim’s warm, caring and empathetic approach has helped me beyond all expectation. I cried through many of my sessions, but Tim was non-judgemental, nothing fazed him. He helped me explore my feelings and gave me strategies to cope with panic attacks. I would highly recommend Tim.  Despite my scepticism, he reassured me from day one that I would improve. And I have.  With his help, I have completely stopped shaking, the anxiety and depression improves every day and I feel I have the capacity to move forward. 

Anne - May 2023

 Tim has been an incredible therapist. When I came here for help I was suicidal and struggling with self harm and other mental health issues. Over the weeks he’s given me the space to be honest and share my feelings and given me techniques to help. He’s been understanding and has given me the confidence to grow and understand myself as a person where I couldn’t before. I am no longer suicidal or self harming and can honestly say I am happy for the first time in my life thanks to the kindness and knowledge that Tim has given. Thanks Tim. 

Katie - March 2023

 Hi Tim, Thankyou so much for all your help you have managed to pull me out of the dark place that I was in, your sessions have helped me a lot! I feel like I'm in a lot better place mentally. I can't thankyou enough for everything you have done, I will highly recommend you to everyone I know. 

Mitchell - March 2023

 This service of talk therapy has helped me see things in a different way, a more positive way; to look at my life and the way I deal with things. I have been persuaded to do it in a calmer and more realistic way. To be kinder to myself when I’m triggered, I don’t have to react. I think having the therapy there has helped to support me with my thoughts, with my interactions, and how I deal with things. It has been a gentle therapy. I’ve not felt exhausted or drained afterwards. It has been very helpful. It’s prompted me to think about how to deal with different triggers and learn better coping strategies for if another crisis comes. 

Diana - February 2023

 To Tim thank you for everything you helped me through some of my lowest times. I am truly grateful for all your support and advice over the last year, its helped me become the person I am today. 

Blake - August 2022

 Tim brought a comfort and trust to not only the residents but to the staff of Avery Care Home. He provided support in the form of a weekly bereavement group, bespoke 1-1 counselling and staff wellness clinics. Feedback was complimentary with a noticeable difference seen in the residents. A staff member commented on how ‘necessary’ the service was to increase well-being for all. 

Maryem - Head of Activities and Wellbeing at Avery Care Home - July 2022

 Hello sir, thank you so much for helping, you have no idea of how much you've helped me out and how much my life has got better sir, all thanks to you it was very helpful and I wish you the best luck for the future sir. 

Rahul - June 2022

 To Tim, Thank you so much for your counselling sessions this year. You helped me so much to move forward and gave me the time to understand my feelings. 

Lily - November 2020