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 Tim helped me get back into dating in a healthy way, by overcoming the negative effects of past relationships on my confidence and by accepting my sexuality, through a non-judgmental approach to my past and my kinks. I felt safe and listened-to with Tim. Our sessions were frank and free-flowing, so I could talk naturally about what was really bothering me week-to-week, and Tim's insights and practical guidance helped me navigate the ups and downs of finally putting myself back out there. At last, I feel like I have put the past in its place, accepted myself fully, and have come to trust myself to be emotionally vulnerable again. I can see a happy relationship in my future, where I couldn't before, and so I highly recommend Tim! 

Ryan - November 2024

 Tim is a lovely person to chat to, I immediately felt like I could open up and express myself in a safe place where there is no judgement and where I can be completely honest. I never felt any embarrassment or humiliation when asking for help and Tim's approach is very gentle and makes you feel comfortable. Tim is very chatty, friendly and open, we have shared our life experiences and been able to relate to each other. He is very good at helping you to manage stress and helps you to feel like you are in control of everything. I have made positive life changes following counselling and felt like I am in charge of my own problems, he has really instilled a sense of optimism in me again. I am very grateful and thankful for Tim's help and would recommend his services. 

Bhagya - August 2024

 When I first reached out to Tim last summer I felt that I was in a very vulnerable position and at a point of emotional crisis. I felt very desperate and struggled to see how I would work my way through some of my issues/struggles. However, Tim provided a comfortable, supportive and well structured environment for me to open up in. My experience with Tim has been exceptionally positive, he is clearly well versed in his profession, with the ability to ask challenging yet necessary questions that helped me to navigate and explore my emotions, thoughts and feelings regarding each issue/situation. I was initially drawn to Tim's services due to my interest in the idea of 'pluralistic' counselling. Opening up and exploring difficult topics can be challenging and it is often a 'no one size fits all' situation, so to have somebody with a plethora of skills/knowledge in this role is definitely a bonus. If you are looking for a diplomatic, empathetic and sensitive counsellor with the ability to challenge and change your emotions/behaviour/thinking, definitely give Tandem a go. 

Natasha - July 2024

 Counselling with Timothy was like talking with an old friend most of the time. I admit I was not certain anything would change about my circumstances during our first session. However, the change that did happen was almost effortless. Our sessions had a significant effect on how I process my emotions and the way I view and treat myself. He helped me make connections about certain things I experienced and encouraged me to trust myself and rely on others. I have forged new pathways and friendships as a result and could not be more grateful. The effect on my wellbeing has been truly amazing. 

Victoria - May 2024

 Tim has been extremely helpful to myself. When I started counselling sessions with him, my anxiety was at an all time high, which resulted in panic attacks and eating problems. I have been able to go from having panic attacks almost everyday to now not having one in around 14 weeks, my social anxiety is more manageable and my eating is drastically better. Tim helped me understand my anxiety, and why I was having particular thoughts, and as a result helped me rationalise them to help take the power away from them. If you are struggling with your mental health, I can honestly say that Tim has been the best professional I have spoke to. Thanks again Tim. 

Kieran - April 2024

 I initially doubted getting any help with my issues, thinking that I can deal with them on my own. However, after going to Tim for help my mind was changed. I had issues regarding discovering and discussing my emotions, as well as regarding a recent breakup. Tim aided me in fixing these issues by exploring my past relationship as a whole and helping me identify what areas could have affected me, teaching me about attachment styles and that not everything that occurred was my fault, helping me look at life as a whole in a different light. My emotions were also tackled, allowing me to be more open with how I feel and discovering that there are more than the basic emotions, allowing me to discover more about myself and have a clearer picture about how i feel. I cannot recommend Tim enough for anyone who believes they need extra assistance in life. 

Tom - March 2024

 I had a positive experience with Tim, appreciating his professional yet inviting approach. His counselling style fostered a comfortable environment, making it easy for me to open up. The sessions proved highly effective, offering valuable insights into my thoughts and emotions. Tim's empathetic guidance was a perfect balance between support and constructive input. I am genuinely grateful for the positive impact he had on my well-being. I definitely recommend Tim to anyone seeking a counsellor who combines expertise with a compassionate approach, creating a safe space for self-reflection and personal growth on their journey to healing and self-discovery. 

Imade - November 2023

 I started my sessions during a very difficult time in my life where I felt like everything in my life was going wrong. Initially I was unsure starting the sessions as I had previously had talking therapy which I did not find as useful, however the initiation process was reassuring and encouraging. I had 12 sessions with Tim and he helped me through each session in a sympathetic and professional manner. Tim was very easy to talk to and gave me space to do sessions in the way that worked best for me and I came out of each session feeling; heard, refreshed and motivated. Tim helped me to understand my traumas and work through each one in order to understand my feelings and thoughts. Tim supported me to recognise and learn healthier ways to manage and express my feelings which have helped me moving forward. 

Shakeebah - September 2023

 I came to counselling to understand my emotions and feelings from my past trauma and experiences. I wasn’t confident about counselling at first however my initial judgement was changed from the first session. Tim allowed me to open closed doors and improve my confidence. I felt trapped but now I am free. Thank you. 

Oskar - June 2023

 Tim was amazing! He thoroughly explained the process and in the first session had me create goals I wanted to work towards. I had one specific main goal I was adamant I would fulfil, and having Tim nudge me and help circumvent issues as they cropped up is genuinely one of the main reasons my goal was reached. He was always patient, he would allow time and space for me to vent frustrations and then he would give me validation for feelings when I myself didn’t have the confidence to do so. I had always known counselling to be an awkward, clinical situation. Tim allowed it to be less imposing, a lot more relaxed. I feel like that atmosphere allowed me to ‘let loose’ a lot more. I don’t think I would be as far into my amputee/prosthetics journey without the assistance of my counsellor. I cannot thank him enough for all the support he has given me. 

Jade - June 2023

 When I met Tim, I was feeling desperate. I’d been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder after losing our son to cancer. I was in a bad way – legs shaking all the time, feeling nauseous with high anxiety and depression. I thought I was going to be like this for the rest of my life. Tim’s warm, caring and empathetic approach has helped me beyond all expectation. I cried through many of my sessions, but Tim was non-judgemental, nothing fazed him. He helped me explore my feelings and gave me strategies to cope with panic attacks. I would highly recommend Tim.  Despite my scepticism, he reassured me from day one that I would improve. And I have.  With his help, I have completely stopped shaking, the anxiety and depression improves every day and I feel I have the capacity to move forward. 

Anne - May 2023

 I have found counselling very helpful as Tim listens to everything I have to say and always offers good advice. I’ve seen very good improvements on my own mental wellbeing. 

Hannah - May 2023

 Tim has been an incredible therapist. When I came here for help I was suicidal and struggling with self harm and other mental health issues. Over the weeks he’s given me the space to be honest and share my feelings and given me techniques to help. He’s been understanding and has given me the confidence to grow and understand myself as a person where I couldn’t before. I am no longer suicidal or self harming and can honestly say I am happy for the first time in my life thanks to the kindness and knowledge that Tim has given. Thanks Tim. 

Katie - March 2023

 Hi Tim, Thankyou so much for all your help you have managed to pull me out of the dark place that I was in, your sessions have helped me a lot! I feel like I'm in a lot better place mentally. I can't thankyou enough for everything you have done, I will highly recommend you to everyone I know. 

Mitchell - March 2023

 I felt that Tim was very nice and understanding. I felt as if I was listened to after every session and the sessions have helped me explore my thoughts and view some behaviours in a different light. It has helped me feel positive about my future. 

Megan - March 2023

 I feel ‘lighter’ and more positive/ optimistic moving forward and better equipped to deal with inevitable lows. 

Jane - February 2023

 This service of talk therapy has helped me see things in a different way, a more positive way; to look at my life and the way I deal with things. I have been persuaded to do it in a calmer and more realistic way. To be kinder to myself when I’m triggered, I don’t have to react. I think having the therapy there has helped to support me with my thoughts, with my interactions, and how I deal with things. It has been a gentle therapy. I’ve not felt exhausted or drained afterwards. It has been very helpful. It’s prompted me to think about how to deal with different triggers and learn better coping strategies for if another crisis comes. 

Diana - February 2023

 My counselling experience has been eye opening and helpful. Tim has helped me so much and he listens to me. It has been a good, safe space where I have felt comfortable to talk. 

Bethan - January 2023

 Tim made it feel very safe and comfortable to talk to about everything and provided a lot of useful help and support. 

Alice - January 2023

 Thank you Tim for all the support you’ve given me I don’t know where I’d be without you.. I’m still finding my way but I’ll get there. 

P - October 2022

 To Tim thank you for everything you helped me through some of my lowest times. I am truly grateful for all your support and advice over the last year, its helped me become the person I am today. I will never forget the great work you have done whilst at the crisis cafe. 

Blake - August 2022

 Tim brought a comfort and trust to not only the residents but to the staff of Avery Care Home. He provided support in the form of a weekly bereavement group, bespoke 1-1 counselling and staff wellness clinics. Feedback was complimentary with a noticeable difference seen in the residents. A staff member commented on how ‘necessary’ the service was to increase well-being for all. 

Maryem - Head of Activities and Wellbeing at Avery Care Home - July 2022

 Hello sir, thank you so much for helping, you have no idea of how much you've helped me out and how much my life has got better sir, all thanks to you it was very helpful and I wish you the best luck for the future sir. 

Rahul - June 2022

 In the small ways, the big ways, and all the ways that count, Thank you 

Aiysha - June 2022

 To Tim, Thank you so much for your counselling sessions this year. You helped me so much to move forward and gave me the time to understand my feelings. 

Lily - November 2020